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Showing posts with label pack leader. Show all posts
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Friday, April 5, 2013

Pet Bonding Inspiration:
Where Do You Find It?

by Carrie Boyko, CEB
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iBark. Do you?
Things at the All Things Dog Blog household are a little out of sync this week. With a family member in the hospital, we're caring for another dog. Add an additional pet to the household and suddenly all H breaks out. Well, maybe that's an exaggeration, but it's not far off.

Oliver is confused by the sudden and unexpected addition to our family and he's been quite vocal as a result. The photo at left is perfect for today's post, don't you think?

It's on days like this when everyone is trying to figure out where they fit in that I find myself wondering how I might bond with the group, and help them bond further with one another.

It's funny. They seem to have already figured out that they can work together as a team to alert me to events. When neighborhood dogs go by or a delivery arrives, I get an alert from the two little guys, which is followed up by a confirmation from Tanner. His voice may be deeper, but the two small ones make far more noise.

Today, in an effort to get a few minutes of quiet to work on an article, I sat down on the floor with all the dogs joining me to see what was up. Obviously not me. Oddly enough, this had an unexpected effect; they all calmed a bit and seemed to become a group. No longer were they 3 dogs who each had their own agenda. We were a family unit--including our added guest--if only for a brief time. 

Even as our guest, Jacque, had spent much of the day prodding our 15 year old senior kitty, Patches, to play with him, he finally gave that effort a rest and allowed her to join us for a few minutes of group QUIET. I quickly took note and decided that I will use this approach to bonding more often. What a joy it was to lie on the floor and have all 3 dogs and our kitty each languishing near me in relaxation mode without any effort to get anything from one another. No play, no pestering, nada. Try it, and report in. I'd love to hear how your furry family responds.

Before I close this edition of the Weekly Wag, I'd like to leave you with last week's link, in case you missed it due to the Easter holiday: Dog BFF's--Helping Your Pups Bond.

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Friday, March 29, 2013

Dog BFF's: Helping Your Pups Bond

by Carrie Boyko, CEB
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Unlikely Pals Watch Each Other's Back
When choosing a second pup to join your pack, it's always a good idea to get the assistance of a behavior specialist or dog trainer to aid in matching the energy levels of your dogs appropriately. This can be a huge factor in making the relationship get off to a good start and is particularly important if your current dog or dogs have any--yes ANY--behavior issues that concern you, even the tiniest bit. Please protect your new pup by addressing these worries before you adopt another pet.

Introducing your new addition to your established best friend is always a precarious activity. I hope you'll realize this and take the time to set up their first meeting with forethought. Introduce them on neutral ground off your property. Take a walk with them, even if the new member of the family is not up to a long walk. Many young puppies can only last for a brief outing before they collapse in need of a nap. Fortunately you'll be able to carry the youngster home, while the rest of your furry family gains an added understanding that this new pup will be joining you all for the long haul.

Beyond this first meeting and the personality traits of your dogs, what else can you do? My first piece of advice would be to get your dogs out walking together regularly. Walking with you sends a message of unity, that "we're all in this together" sort of feeling that helps bring housemates together on the same ground. The more you walk together, the more your dogs will see themselves as a unit, working together to maintain a happy, harmonious household.

Be aware of any jealousy that may be signaled by your first family members, offering them some one-on-one time to make sure they understand that you still view them as extremely important. Praise them when they behave well with their new housemate and encourage all of your pets to build an amicable relationship that demonstrates teamwork. From alerting you to strangers to maintaining the household rules, you'll soon find each dog takes a special interest in the job that best suits him, balancing the workload to give you peace of mind. Watch for opportunities to build on these acceptable behaviors with praise, affection and treats.

Finally, a note of extreme importance. Dogs that live together can be dangerous to themselves and family members if they develop food aggression or resource guarding. The latter can refer to anything that a dog refuses to give up when asked by you--toys, treats, and even your favorite chair. To assure that these problems do not begin, and never become a problem, please train for this from day one.
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Teach your dogs to wait at their bowls until you signal permission to eat. This sends an unspoken message of ownership of the food, helping to make sure the dogs do not ever attempt to take over another's chow. Toys may be dispensed in the same manner. Ask for proper manners and offer the toy as a reward. Be sure to include "Drop it" in your list of skills to train for, to allow you to retrieve items of value or danger before your dog consumes them.

These and many more new companion strategies will help your dogs bond with one another, while building your bond with them as a team.

Happy bonding,

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Monday, December 6, 2010

ASK THE DOG TRAINER, with Mike Shamp: Restlessness in High Energy Dogs

by Mike Shamp
Master Dog Behavior Therapist and Trainer



Dear Mike:

My mini schnauzer is going on 3 years old, but she still sleeps in the crate at night. She is a very high energy dog and only within the last 6 months or so has she settled herself down to sleep in the dog bed in the living room. She pays attention to everything and everyone and without forced confinement she will not sleep. What is the best time and way to transition her to sleep in her dog bed in the bedroom instead of her crate. I tried 4 nights, about 30 minutes, of letting her roam, redirecting to her bed, etc., but she never settled down. As soon as she went into the crate she was curled up and sleeping.

Pepper, is crate trained very well. She knows the command "Go to your crate." I have a large house and therefore she has 3 crates for various times/occasions but mostly she is out all day unless there are a lot of people here or activity. 

I have a crate in the bedroom and she has had no problem at all during the night, even as a puppy. She goes in on command with a treat, curls up and goes to sleep. When I tried leaving her in the bedroom, she wouldn't settle down and wouldn't lay in her dog bed. She kept walking around, getting toys, jumping on my bed etc. As soon as I put her in the crate she curled up and went to sleep. I have been using a different term lately, "Time for bed", instead of go to your crate. I'm just wondering if she will ever be a dog bed sleeper or always need the crate for nightime?
Dawn
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G’day Dawn,

Congratulations on sensible use of crates in your home! Crates are a practical way of not only keeping a dog safe, they also provide a den and a place to rest. Many dogs will go back to their crates for rest and refuge for their entire life. Our 11 year Greyhound, Yukon, has lived in our home for 9 years but still goes to his crate. We often find him lying there resting with the door open.

Miniature Schnauzers are by nature highly alert, vigilant and intelligent. This combination of traits may contribute to Pepper’s nighttime activities. She may feel a need to be the pack sentry while the rest of the pack sleeps, thus her alertness and restlessness outside of the crate.

Pepper appears very willing to go into her crate and sleeps restfully all night. This may indicate that she has “clocked out” of her shift and her job as sentry is over for the day. She can rest peacefully when she is relieved of her guarding responsibilities. As long as her leader has asked her to rest she does not need to worry about protecting the pack. Many dogs left free to roam the house become anxious. They are left to guard a large area with no help or back up for long periods of time. It is a huge responsibility that makes it difficult to rest with all of that real estate to protect.

Making decisions concerning whether to crate or not to crate depends on the dog’s environment, temperament, and energy level. Some puppies are wonderful from the start without ever using a crate. While other dogs need a den-like place to find solace, a safe haven. There are also dogs that are high energy working dogs that need to be told when to rest.

Pepper shows signs that with age she is more willing to lie on her dog bed outside of her crate. This is a good beginning, but it will take time. Consider the level of exercise and mind stimulation that Pepper receives daily.  Does she get sufficient exercise for her age and breed? Is the level of mind stimulation she receives from toys, games and training enough to keep up with her intelligence? Does she need to be out of a crate or is her need for freedom a human desire?

A program of structured exercise and training is often a good way to work with high energy dogs. If you have children, they can play games that involve thoughtful responses from Pepper. Hide and seek; find the hidden toy; naming toys and picking the correct toy from a pile are all good ways to stimulate and satisfy Pepper’s busy nature. There are other ways to fit “brain” activities into a busy lifestyle. Satisfy her natural foraging instinct by hiding raw vegetables around your back yard or treats around your home. This will direct her energy into a constructive and thoughtful exercise that takes very little of your time. Toys such as a Kong, Buster Cube or Canine Genius require Pepper to work and think to retrieve the treats and food inside the toy.

As a closing thought, Pepper may desire a formal end to her day. She may need to be told when her work day is over. Our relationship with our dog, as with a relationship with our families requires two way communication. Listen to Pepper to see what she has to say so that you can satisfy her needs. She may be more comfortable in her crate at night knowing that her daily responsibility has come to an end for the day. 

Mike
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For more information on Mike Shamp and his training, you may find him at Bark Busters of Central Florida. you can also visit Bark Busters' Training Tips Page for help.


A personal appointment with a trainer will likely provide more specific information on your dog's issues and your questions.

Related Posts:
Is Agility in Your Dog's Future?
Oliver is yammering on about Trainer Mike over at 5 Minutes for Fido. Stop in and see what he's up to.


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Friday, October 1, 2010

Fido Meets Baby: A Program to Prepare New Parents

by Carrie Boyko, CEB
Baby will Soon be on Level with Your Dog
Bringing home a new baby is one of the top reasons that dogs end up in shelters. Yet there is much a couple can do to prepare their pup, whether 10 lbs or 150. One trainer is taking up this challenge in the Orlando area by working with hospitals to offer a class for expectant parents with dogs. When I learned about this, my jaw dropped. What an obvious, unserved niche for dog trainers to focus on.

New parents have enough challenges, without having to figure out how to create a balance between baby and dog. Enter Mike Shamp and his program, Fido Meets the New Baby, currently offered through Florida Hospitals in central Florida. His class is presented monthly, helping couples prepare by offering education and tips to assist them with getting their dog through the transition. I was pleased to learn that his first topic is to explain the pack structure from the dog’s vantage point. So many owners struggle with their dog’s behaviors simply because they lack a basic understanding of how dogs view our families’ way of working.

Mike continues by acknowledging the challenges and stresses involved, and then helps couples establish a plan to prepare their dog for a new pack member, even before the baby arrives. By establishing new rules over time, these changes will not be interpreted as having association with the arrival of the new infant. This works to the family’s advantage, often making a significant difference in the dog’s acceptance and observance of his new rules.

While maintaining barriers of distance between baby and dog, the dog can still be given exposure to the new family member by scent, sight, introduction to baby’s ‘things’, and supervised visits that allow the dog to learn his limits with the baby. 

Parents are encouraged to assure the dog that all is normal by maintaining a strong leadership role and continuing regular exercise and attention to the dog, as well as the infant. It is important not to banish and ignore the pup, when baby enters the scene.

If you, or someone you know, is preparing to bring home a new family member, this class or something similar to that offered by Mike, with Bark Busters USA, is a great way to prepare for a happy transition for both family and Fido. I encourage you to seek professional help--especially if you have a large or dominant dog--long before your infant is due to come home. How do you know if your dog is dominant? That's for your training professional to decide. 


Join me again soon when I continue with this topic in more depth, sharing some tips and techniques both from my own repertoire and from Mike's. Thanks to Bark Busters USA for being a great resource on this topic.


Want to read more? Try one of these books, and don't miss my interview with a new mom, linked just below the books:


Related Reading: Dogs and Babies. An Interview with a New Mom

Today is giveaway day for our Music to Calm Your Canine Companion. Want to know who won? Check in with Oliver, our prize manager, at 5 Minutes for Fido. He's making the announcement over there on his own blog!


Did you miss the announcement for next Friday's prize package? Check out yesterday's post, where we showed you one more way to help your kids and dogs bond.


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Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Who Owns the Dog Food at Your House?

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Waiting Permission...
At my house the dog food, treats and all edibles are clearly owned by me. Not Tanner. Not Xena. And certainly not Oliver. They know it and we know it.


When friends and family visit, they are always amazed at the dogs' manners during feeding time. Everyone knows where to sit, stay still, be quiet, and wait their turn to be fed.


Just as some families say 'grace' before dinner, our dogs have to give thanks by being patient. When everyone is quiet and calm, the permission to eat is given one by one. Whichever dog is the calmest gets the first go ahead. Usually that is Tanner, but Xena and Oliver get their chance quite often.


Once the dish is set on the floor, this is NOT a signal to eat. And their neighbor's dish is not theirs to sniff, or steal from. Likewise, they understand that what the pack leader giveth, the pack leader can taketh away. I test this every now and then, to assure they remember. I can take a dish, hold it for a count of 10 as the dog looks on, wondering if he gets to finish his dinner. When he proves that he understands this dish is mine, I return it to him and praise him as he continues to eat. I can pet him, kiss him, touch his dish and there is never a hiccup.


The whole gang is well versed in the rules. Sit. Quiet. Wait. When I give permission to chow down, they watch carefully, to be sure I'm speaking to them.


"Tanner. All done. Take it"
'All done' tells Tanner that he does not have to hold his "stay" any longer. Funny thing is that he is not likely to leave his dish and disappear when it is full. No way! So, he waits for the rest of the command. He anticipates it: "Take it" is pretty straight forward to you and me. But Tanner sometimes watches my hands to be sure I'm motioning to him. 

I make a habit of using hand and verbal signals, as Xena's hearing is getting a bit weak. I also speak up when giving commands to Xena, and I tap a spoon on her dish to help her know it is feeding time. 

With her vision and hearing showing signs of age, using all of her senses in my communications helps her to acknowledge my commands to her. Even at 13 1/2 she still knows the rules and does not complain.

Oliver is another story altogether. He is my most observant pupil. No wavering concerns about who I am speaking to with Oliver. The minute I give him the go ahead, he dives in. And that's all good, as he is the slowest eater, with those tiny little teeth of his.
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"Take It" Time is Earned
After everyone has eaten, I soften a bit and allow dishwashers to take over. Tanner and Oliver love this job. The two of them will often wash Xena's dish out together, while Xena has wandered off in search of the door--ready to go out and do her business.

Dishes done, we all head out to the yard. Oops! Don't forget the biodegradable poop bag. Okay. We're ready to go now.

All is well when the dogs remember who owns the food. If you have more than one dog in your home, teaching wait or stay, leave it and take it are great skills that will help you set yourself up as the boss, while assuring your dogs are properly behaved during dinner time.
Got questions? Drop our trainer a note and ask. We'll be happy to help, as will I.

Happy tails!

Related Reading:
Disciplining Your Dog Through Feeding (more detail)
Preventing Food Aggression
Sharing Human Food with Your Dog: What is Safe and Nutritious?

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